Is this gay??? REALLY need help with this!!?

Ok.. Me and my buddy were working on a truck, and he said he wanted to become a ballerina b/c he would be surrounded by vag and in positions to grab a feel every now and than. I think that it is still gay because no matter what your still in pink slippers and tights dancing around, and even if it wasnt gay once you subject yourself to that your more or less gay anyways even you are still into the ladies.





What do you think, majority decides if its gay or not. Much appreciated.

Is this gay??? REALLY need help with this!!?
He is not gay, but he is pathetic! How desperate can you get? Call him a vag hag for me!
Reply:He's not gay. Sounds like he's secure enough in his sexuality to realize that non-traditional roles get you more women than traditional roles. How secure are you in your sexuality? Is working on your truck and drinking a Bud and wearing blue what defines you as a man? Or can you let go of the stereotypes enough to realize that who you are is more than just the manly things you do and wear?
Reply:In the past 30 years or so, there were two great and famous Russian male ballet stars. One was straight and the other was gay.





Why do you seem to think that the only way a man can be straight is if he has guzzles beer after work, chews tobacco and smokes cigars, has a beer belly hanging over his belt, smears axle grease on his face, unloads trucks, runs around the house in his boxers and undershirt, eats macaroni and beans, burps and farts as loud as he can?





Do you think that gay men have a monopoly on being refined and sophisticated?
Reply:Dude, be mature about this, if it's his dream to be a ballerina lt be his dream. Go ahead think he's gay and crap, but the only gay one (weird one i mean) is going to be you for being such an *** for judging him for doing something he WANTS to do. It's his life, and his choices, not yours.
Reply:Wanting to be a dancer is no more a factor of what persons sexual preference is, than being a lead male actor in violent movies!





If he came on to you, that would be a strong factor in the gay direction.





"Friends" are allowed to say dumb things, once in a while!





Go Figure!
Reply:hey i used to be a dancer and no you were black shoes black tights and either a black or white shirt and no that does not mean he is gay
Reply:You are falling for stereotypes...there are many male ballet dancers who are straight...don't fall into that trap about any field..there are straight and gay men in all fields, including heavy sports.
Reply:Grow up, he's obviously straight and extremely immature.
Reply:Unless he's going there to pick up guys, he's not gay.
Reply:well its not gay to do ballerina you wear tights for guys maybe he want to meet girls or relax
Reply:doen't sound it to me sounds like he was joking around. maybe he likes to dance (which doesn't make him gay)
Reply:Not gay, lol.
Reply:Dude, grow the f^ck up!! He wants to be one to feel up women!! You don't get any straighter than that!! :@)
Reply:you're an id!ot.!
Reply:On one hand he's still the same guy you've always known. You know one of his secrets now, but he's still the same guy.





I think your concerns of him getting AIDS or becoming a child molestor are probably a little unfounded. AIDS is no longer a predominantly gay disease, and not *all* gay people will be molestors. If he's not done anything by now he probably wont.





On the other hand, you are now in the awkward situation of having a gay best friend who may feel very differently about you than you previously thought he did. What will you do if he makes advances towards you? How would you feel sharing a dorm now?





While he is the same person, there's no telling how he looks at you.





Personally, I wouldn't find it possible to have a gay friend like that. Not only do I not agree with the lifestyle, I would be concerned about what's potentially going on in his head about me. Everything he did would suddenly have questionable motives behind it. Like if we went swimming is he going to check me out? Is he going to check out guys in the changing room? What if he gets a boyfriend and brings him around? Would you be fine with that? With seeing them snog?





It'd be too much of a change in how I view him. While he's still the same person, that new knowledge creates an entirely different version of him.